blog no. 4: Irmi, Young at Heart Chorus, Jeong Kwan


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I didn't realize how much fun I would have writing this creative lifestyle blog and I hope that this comes across in my posts. I have an ongoing list of things that I want to write about and people whose lives I want to call attention to. There is so much inspiration out there!

Catching a glimpse of light has made me aware that the tunnel we have been in has been deeper and darker than I even thought...We came very close to losing our democracy and we must remain totally vigilant lest it happens again. But for now, how great, as CNN's Van Jones put it, that "the stutterer won over the bully."

Please consider giving me your feedback in the comment section below and if you like what you see, I'd so appreciate your forwarding this new blog to anyone you think might be interested. Thank you so much and stay safe out there!


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Portrait of Irmi Selver by her daughter in law Cappy Coates

Portrait of Irmi Selver by her daughter in law Cappy Coates

The documentary film IRMI tells the interesting life story of German Jewish refugee, Irmi Selver, based on a personal memoir she originally wrote for the eyes and ears of her two grandchildren, read in the film by the German actress, Hanna Schygulla. Included as one of the featured films in the upcoming New York Jewish Film Festival (don't worry--you don't have to be Jewish to enjoy the Jewish film festival!), her story is told lovingly by two long time filmmakers and dear friends, Veronica Selver, (Irmi's daughter) in the Bay Area and Susan Fanshel in New York City, a cross-country collaboration! Irmi had an indomitable spirit, and yet her life was laced with unthinkable tragedy. I had the good fortune of knowing her personally and I see her in my mind's eye standing in her bright yellow kitchen, full of life, with her huge infectious smile and her familiar German accented voice loud and clear. Irmi's journey took many turns, over two continents, through wartime and a lot of different kinds of experiences--what we walk away with is the strength of the human spirit and most of all, her resilience. IRMI will be available for screening on January 26th, 27th, and 28th. Purchase $12 tickets here for the virtual screening and sign up for a special Q and A Zoom session with the filmmakers on January 27th here.

Young at Heart Chorus

Young at Heart Chorus

You might have heard of the Young at Heart Chorus out of Northampton, Massachusetts or seen the wonderful documentary about them. To beccome a member of this singing group, you have to be over 70 and this is no ordinary old people's choir. Led by the only youngster in the bunch, Bob Climan (he's in his sixties and started out playing piano at a senior citizen community center), the group plays a variety of his musical favorites which include a repetoire of punk rock and rock and roll. There is a documentary about them that is pure pleasure and a must see. But here I want to share with you a very special moving performance by Young at Heart chorus member, Fred Knittle of the Cold Play song Fix You, that touched me deeply, mostly because it shows that if you have soul, you don't need anything else. One of the participating instruments in this performance is an oxygen machine! I will never hear Fix You in the same way again.

Jeong Kwan, Zen Buddhist Nun and World Renowned Chef. Drawing by German artist Alice Pelzi (https://www.portrait52.com/blog/jeong-kwan)

Jeong Kwan, Zen Buddhist Nun and World Renowned Chef. Drawing by German artist Alice Pelzi (https://www.portrait52.com/blog/jeong-kwan)

I love to eat good food, explore different types of cuisine, dine out, and find great restaurants near me. (Hopefully we will get back to that when the Covid 19 Pandemic is over.) In the meantime, I am a big fan of many of the cooking shows and definitely consider myself a "foodie." I also realize that cooking can be a highly creative venture not far from other fine arts and chefs can be true artists in the real sense of the word. Chef's Table is one of my favorite food shows and this episode that I highlight here stands out above the others for me. Jeong Kwan is no ordinary chef. She is first and foremost a Korean Buddhist nun and her temple cooking predates farm to table by thousands of years. She champions simplicity and vegan cooking at its absolute best. Watching this episode, I am reminded of how simple, good clean living can be. Watch Netflix's Season 3, Episode One here.


painting of the week

Pam Smilow, Lavender Tree, mixed media on canvas, 50” x 80” , $8500

Pam Smilow, Lavender Tree, mixed media on canvas, 50” x 80” , $8500

I chose this painting of mine this week, Lavender Tree, for its softness, its peacefulness and because it is a dreamy one. I thought it was particularly apt as we emerge from four years of being fed lies, negativity and hate. And then I realized too that these colors are the colors of Kamala Harris and Jill Biden's coats on Inauguration Day! My favorite image of January 20th, 2021 was of the four of them: Joe Biden, Jill Biden, Kamala Harris and Doug Emhoff, on the east steps of the U.S. Capitol, standing proudly in all their glory. I loved the colors--the jewel tones against the grey steps, and the combination of Kamala's purples against Jill's turquoise teals. My art is often based on these types of color sequences, where I stay in the same family of colors rather than mixing a palette of opposing ones.


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 3: On Tyranny, John Dillermand, Sarabeth's Tomato Soup, Eugene Goodman


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Although this is my attempt to celebrate good news during these very challenging times, I want to bring to your attention a very important book that my sister Judy, who was always ahead of her time, bought for me a number of years ago when it first came out in 2017: On Tyranny by Tim Snyder. Judy and I spent many a phone conversation ranting and raving about politics, the state of our nation and wondered why people were not more outraged at what was going on. Daughters of a mother who grew up in Nazi Germany, we had the anxiety and fear of tyranny in our bones. This little book says it all and is an absolute must read for every American these days...
And thanks to everyone for your encouragement and very positive feedback about my new blog. I am getting a great amount of pleasure out of writing and researching it every week. Keep the comments coming, share it if you like and I love when people share some of their good news finds with me too.


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You won’t believe this new Danish Children’s TV Series

You won’t believe this new Danish Children’s TV Series

I have a special place in my heart for the Danes. Not only because I was married to one or because of the fact that they were able to save every one of their Jews during WWII. Having spent quite a bit of time there, I know that they have a very high level of education, are often nonconformist and think in very outside of the box, creative ways. They also have, in my opionion, a very refreshing and unihibited way of looking at the human body. Where else in the world could you find a sizeable amount of the elderly population taking a leisurely early morning dip in the sea on a summer morning, stark naked at the age of 80? And so why am I not surprised at all about the latest Danish children’s TV show featuring John Dillermand (Weinerman) and his Magic Penis. Read on here before you get outraged…

A Delicious Recipe

A Delicious Recipe

When I was a kid, one of my favorite lunches was a can of Campbell's tomato soup. I can just see myself at the kitchen table crushing saltines into it. Although I would never go near canned soup of any type nowadays, I did find the gourmet version of this ultimate comfort food at a mainstay and well loved establishment in New York City: Sarabeth's Kitchen. Thanks to Pinterest and Epicurious, I have now come across Sarabeth's recipe for this beloved and coveted Velvet Tomato Soup. Enjoy this ultimate comfort food during this exhausting and scary time in American history. Trust me, go right into the kitchen and make this. My mouth is watering as I type these words...

Hero Eugene Goodman

Hero Eugene Goodman

If you had any doubt that one person could make a difference and change history, think no more. Enough cannot be said about Capitol Policeman Eugene Goodman. He was the officer who single-handedly more than likely prevented a massacre at the U.S. Capitol building last week by leading the rabid mob of insurrectionists away from the Senate Chambers where our lawmakers were holed up and hiding. Here are the details about how this unsung hero saved the day.


painting of the week

Pam Smilow, Yellow Spruce Series: Gray   mixed media on canvas   50” x 80”  $8500.

Pam Smilow, Yellow Spruce Series: Gray mixed media on canvas 50” x 80” $8500.

This painting has all my signature elements: trees, birds, polka dots, stripes, collage, mixed media elements. My vocabulary is rooted in nature and things that I observe that attract me. I paint intuitively, often in series, and usually stick to an "in the family of color" palette. In this case, grays with pops of blue and green gold...


Below are links to our ArtSHOP, Smilow + Mathiesen PAINTINGS and two favorite CHARITIES



About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection.

blog no. 2: National Dance Institute, Surviving Death, Leonard Cohen


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I always wanted to start a TV network which would be Good News 24/7. Call me naive but I feel if we are shown the true heroes of our society: the teachers, the nurses, the human rights activists, the good samaritans, or as Mr. Rogers said, "the helpers" instead of the dregs, we would all be inspired to rise to the occasion.

This blog, which I will send out every Sunday morning, is my small attempt to remind us that good can win over evil, that the arts are the mainstay of human existence, that we must work hard to fight for what is right and that democracy is not a bystander sport. Here goes Blog Post Number Two.


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National Dance Institute is one of my favorite non-profits. They use dance and music to instill in students a love of the arts, a passion for learning and a sense of confidence. Seeing them perform in person is such a joyous experience but you can watch them here in the meantime. Their Birmingham Children’s March, choreographed by the brilliant Kay Gaynor, is so beautiful and timely. Watch here.

For those of you who know me, you know I have experienced a lot of loss in my life. When my husband died suddenly in 2013, I set out to understand everything I could about death and dying. It has been my passion ever since and I have read extensively on the subject. In 2017, along came Leslie Kean's excellent book "Surviving Death: A Journalist Investigates Evidence of an Afterlife" and it basically was a summary of everything I had studied in one single book. I was so happy to see that this has now become a six-part Netflix documentary series entitled Surviving Death. It might just blow your mind--you will never think of life again in the same way.

Leonard Cohen and Marianne Ihlen in Hydra, Greece Photo Courtesy of Babis Mores/Roadside Attractions

Leonard Cohen and Marianne Ihlen in Hydra, Greece Photo Courtesy of Babis Mores/Roadside Attractions

I've only been a groupie to one musician in my life: Leonard Cohen. My interest in him, his music and his poetry has not subsided at all since my teenage years. I have been particularly touched by the lifelong relationship of Leonard and his Norwegian love Marianne Ihlen, inspiration to many of his songs and poetry. Here I share a somewhat obscure interview about her and Leonard, given by an old friend of Marianne's. Very touching...


painting of the week

Gert Mathiesen, Longer Boats Neon Linoleum Cut, mixed media linocut on paper, 38” x 82 inches, available as a giclee print in various sizes

Gert Mathiesen, Longer Boats Neon Linoleum Cut, mixed media linocut on paper, 38” x 82 inches, available as a giclee print in various sizes

My late husband, Danish painter, printmaker and potter Gert Mathiesen was my partner in crime for over twenty five years. In addition to doing our own art, we often collaborated. His work and the memory of his spirit continues to inspire me every day. Gert carved this particular large linoleum piece while sitting at a table on the beach in Puerto Rico--in the sun, he said, it would cut like butter.


Below are links to our ArtSHOP, our PAINTINGS and two favorite CHARITIES



About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection.

our new blog: Krista Tippett, Crip Camp, Heather Cox Richardson


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My dad, the mid-century modern furniture designer Mel Smilow, always wanted everyone to love all the things he loved and was passionate about sharing his favorites with everyone who would listen, whether it be something he just ate, a favorite movie, a person he admired…

Living alone during times of COVID, I find myself wanting to share things that inspire me too, so I decided to write a blog. Here goes Blog Post Number One. I hope people will come to value my choices and share with me my passions.


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I look forward to 7am Sunday mornings (who gets up that early on a Sunday?) although in this modern age we can listen to ON BEING, Krista Tippett’s podcast, any time of the day or night. She consistently has guests that are people I want to know and learn more about. Last week's offering was Gaelynne Lea: “…a fiddler and singer-songwriter…in an electric wheelchair,” but any one of her episodes are worth the listen.

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On the subject of disabilities, if you haven’t seen Crip Camp, the second in the series of Netflix films selected by Michelle and Barack Obama, don’t miss it—a true inspirational gem…

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And my third selection of the week is about someone I have come to rely on for political news in a historical context: Heather Cox Richardson, Letters from an American. One daily email each morning gives you all the news you need on our current American state of affairs without sensation, purely informative and just the facts …To subscribe, click here.


painting of the week

Pam Smilow, Sole Tree in Red, 50” x 80”, mixed media on canvas

Pam Smilow, Sole Tree in Red, 50” x 80”, mixed media on canvas

Nature almost always has a presence in my paintings. Sometimes while I am driving, I feel my heart start to beat faster at the site of a beautiful tree…Did you know these regal entities communicate with each other by way of smells, tastes and sounds, warn can each other of danger, and thrive in a complex web of interconnectedness? These and many more facts I found in a book I just finished, The Hidden Life of Trees, by Peter Wohlleben.


Below are links to our ArtSHOP, our PAINTINGS and two favorite CHARITIES


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection.