The Ghost Inside My Child
Quotes from Michael Singer
This is the book of Singer’s I found most useful, published in 2022.
Not Quite Summer Drinks
Blood Orange and Kombucha Mule Recipe courtesy of Marianne Williams, Real Simple. Photo courtesy of Stephen Devries
Recipe Courtesy of Liz Mervosh and Real Simple, Photo coutesy of Victor Protasio
Last Minute Products for Mother's Day
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 175: What Makes a Good Life, Ben and Jerry's Oreo Bar Graph, Traditional Women's Dress
What Makes a Good Life?
Ben and Jerry's Oreo Bar Graph
Painting of the Week
On my wall today.
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 174: Wayne Dyer's Butterfly Story, Longevity Soup Recipe, Sweet Animal Story
Wayne Dyer's Butterfly Story
Longevity Soup
Painting of the Week
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 173: Temple Grandin's Brain, Poem by Edna St. Vincent Millay, Apples Don't Fall Mini-Series
Temple Grandin's Brain
Edna St. Vincent Millay Poem
Painting of the Week
This large painting hangs in an inn in Round Top, Texas.
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 172: Wanda Sykes: A Good Laugh, 3-D Art, e.e. cummings poem
Wanda Sykes: Very Funny!
Road_art1
Poem by e.e.cummings
Painting of the Week
Just finished this painting in my studio in Maine
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 171: John O'Donohue Poem, The Last Repair Shop, Chicken Marbella
Upcoming Show this coming weekend April 5 in Houston!
If you have friends in Houston who you think will enjoy my art, please forward this invitation to them.
John O'Donohue
Documentary: The Last Repair Shop
Chicken Marbella Recipe
Painting of the Week
Mixed media on canvas 54” x 102”
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 170: Jon Batiste, Bernard Langlais, Pro-Choice Women Candidates
Jon Batiste
Jon Batiste with his wife Suleika Jaouad
Bernard Langlais
Seagull, Portland Museum of Art
Untitled (Owl)
Bernard Langlais, Courtesy Photographer David Hiser, and the Georges River Land Trust, Rockland, Maine
Owl, 15” x 20” x 9”
Bas Relief 98” x 232” x 6”
Children’s Book, part of the Maine Art Series for Young Readers
Pro-Choice Women Candidates
Painting of the Week
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 169: Wim Hof, The Traveling Wilburys, Animal Stories
Wim Hof: The Iceman
The Traveling Wilburys
Animal Stories
Paintings of the Week
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 168: Smoke Sauna Sisterhood, Miso Black Cod Recipe, Full Grown Furniture
Smoke Sauna Sisterhood
Sounds boring--one and a half hours of footage inside a half-lit Estonian smoke sauna listening to women talking while they partake in this ancient tradition of communing and cleansing. Yet this film is anything but boring!
Smoke Sauna Sisterhood is a multi-award winning documentary by Anna Hints that pretty much sums up the experience of womanhood in the most poetic of ways. As viewers, we bear witness as the women share intimacies, speaking about their bodies and their self image, their relationships, and their experiences of growing up in a male oriented, patriarchal society.
Traditionally the Estonian smoke sauna is a sacred, spiritual place that dates back to pre-biblical times--where women give birth, wash the dead, smoke meat and heal. It continues to this day and UNESCO has in fact
included the Võrumaa smoke sauna on the Intangible Cultural Heritage of Humanity List.
Smoke Sauna Sisterhood is available on Apple TV and on Amazon. Upon receiving an award from the Sundance Film Festival, Anna Hint said "In Estonia we don't speak too much but we do sing. Here is a song for you."
Miso Black Cod Recipe
Photo of the Week
View from my window. Dream come true. Pinching myself.
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 167: Nick Cave, Mary Oliver Poem, What I Listened to on My Ride to Maine
Nick Cave
When I am looking for a good podcast, one of the places I head to is On Being by Krista Tippett. Her recent conversation with Nick Cave was particularly interesting and moving to me, covering a multitude of issues including love, death, grief, and religion--a full gamut of topics that plague the human condition.
Nick Cave is an Australian musician, writer and filmmaker whose intense life has been full of ups and downs including devastating loss. His emotional opennesss and vulnerability has had a healing effect on many. His new book entitled Faith Hope and Carnage documents that emotional journey. In addition, he writes a blog entitled The Red Hand Files where readers ask him questions and he attempts to answer them. Amanda Petrusich conducted a recent interview with him in the New Yorker and there is a full length documentary entitled This Much I Know To Be True about Cave's life on youtube should you want to learn more. His creative rich life is definitely worth examination.Here are a few of his songs:
Into My Arms
Red Right Hand
Waiting For You
Mary Oliver Poem
A Few Songs I Listened To On My Ride to Maine
I am back in my favorite spot. These are a few of the songs I listened to on the six hour ride up:
Clay Pigeons sung by Michael Cera, written by Blaze Foley
Song for a Winter's Night written and sung by Gordon Lightfoot
Whistle Stop sung and written by Jim Sullivan
Hero by Family of the Year
Bluebird of Happiness by Mojave 3
Kiko and the Lavender Moon by Los Lobos>
Shotgun Never Aimed by Uniontown
Beware of Darkness by George Harrison sung by Stanley and Astrid Samuelsen
Texas Hold Em by Beyoncé
Painting of the Week
Spring is Coming mixed media on canvas 54” x 32” $7500
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 166: National Dance Institute's Dream Project, Poem by Aurora Levins Morales, Teriyaki Chicken Cups Recipe
National Dance Institute's Dream Project
Today I attended a performance of National Dance Institute's Dream Project, an inclusive dance program within NDI that provides children with disabilities the opportunity to perform.
In this unique program, children with disabilities and a group of age-matched, neuro-typical peers dance in partnership, with the goals of maximizing participation and challenging every dancer to achieve their best through teamwork, creativity, empathy, and discovery.
DREAM stands for Dancers Realize Excellence Through Arts and Movement and this is the 10th year of its existence. NDI believes that dancing enriches the soul and brings joy and expression into every person's life…and that every single child in a room has different levels of ability that should be recognized and celebrated. The Dream Project is living proof of that. To say it has made a tremendous difference in the lives of so many children and their families is an understatement. One has only to look at the faces of the participants to see the joy it brings to them, their families and to any audience who sees them.
Poem by Aurora Levins Morales
Aurora Levins Morales is a Puerto Rican writer and poet. She takes part in many social justice movements with an emphasis on Latina and Third World feminism.
Summons
by Aurora Levins Morales
Last night I dreamed
ten thousand grandmothers
from the 12 hundred corners of the earth
walked out into the gap
one breath deep
between the bullet and the flesh
between the bomb and the family.
They told me we cannot wait for
governments.
There are no peacekeepers boarding planes.
There are no leaders who dare to say
every life is precious, so it will have to be us.
They said we will cup our hands around each
heart.
We will sing the earth's song, the song of
water,
a song so beautiful that vengeance will turn
to weeping.
The mourners will embrace, and grief replace
every impulse toward harm.
Ten thousand is not enough, they said,
so, we have sent this dream, like a flock of
doves
into the sleep of the world. Wake up. Put on
your shoes.
You who are reading this, I am bringing
bandages
and a bag of scented guavas from my trees. I
think
I remember the tune. Meet me at the corner.
Let's go.
Teriyaki Chicken Cups
TERIYAKI CHICKEN CUPS
Courtesy of kalejunkie on TikTok
Makes 4 servings
INGREDIENTS
1 1/2 cups cooked rice
3 sheets nori cut into 12 inch squares
1 lb. chicken without skin cut into small pieces
You can substitue with salmon or shrimp
1 tbsp. olive/avocado/or sesame oil
1/2 cup teriyaki sauce
3 tbsp. mayo
SAUCE
2 tbsp. mayo
1-2 tsp. sriracha
think with water if needed
Garnish with scallions and toasted sesame seeds
Preheat oven to 400 degrees
Cook rice and set aside (could be sushi rice or any rice will do).
Cut chicken into small pieces and toss with oil, mayo and teriyaki sauce and set aside.
Cut nori in 12 inch squares and in a muffin tin, place nori and press down 1-2 tbsp. rice into it.
Add 2 tbsp. chicken mixture.
Bake for 15-16 minutes, then broil for 2 minutes to get top a little browned.
Make spicy sauce and spoon a little onto each
Top with green onion and sesame seeds.
Best to eat immediately after cooking…
Quote of the Week
Painting of the Week
Private Collecition, New York, NY, Purple Tulip, mixed media linocut
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 165: NYC Ballet Copland, Queer Eye: Clarinet Queen of New Orleans, Courage to Act: Rescue in Denmark
NYC Ballet Copland
I went to the New York City Ballet last week based on some photos I saw of the costumes--luscious colors, pure clean set, beautiful figures seeming to fly through the air. The program was Copland, a full ballet choreographed by Justin Peck, dancer, director and resident choreographer for the NYC Ballet. It was inspired by and set to compositions by the wonderful music of Brooklyn-born, American composer Aaron Copland and includes vibrantly colored sets by artist Jeffrey Gibson.
Peck knows the the dance world from all angles, affiliated with the NYC Ballet since 2006 as a dancer for the company and choreographing his first ballet in 2008. Alastair Macaulay, the chief dance critic at The New York Times, described Peck in an article as "the third important choreographer to have emerged in classical ballet this century."
Those of us lucky to live in New York City and vicinity have one more chance to see Copland this season, on Wednesday February 17th at 7:30pm at Lincoln Center. Words that come to mind are exhilarating, fresh, and joyful. An antidote to our world right now and a cold winter's night...
Below are a few of Copland's most famous compositions that Peck drew on for this ballet:
Fanfare for the Common Man
Simple Gifts
from Rodeo
from Billy the Kid
Ballet 422 is a documentary of a behind the scenes look at Justin Peck and the New York City Ballet in action. Available on tubi, amazon, etc.
Clarinet Queen of New Orleans
Queer Eye is one of those television shows on Netflix that just expounds good, in a world that is intent on spreading the bad. And lucky us, a new season is out of the Fabulous Five for our enjoyment and inspiration.
One of the new episodes in Season 8 features the legendary street musician Doreen Ketchens, official Queen of the Clarinet from New Orleans. You just have to listen to her play to realize she is the real thing, rivalling the best of the best of the jazz musicians of our time. When home in New Orleans, Doreen can often be found on Royal Street performing for tourists and other French Quarter strollers but she is also an international attraction at festivals and concerts throughout the world and has performed for four United States presidents.
She is also one of the first female bandleaders in New Orleans, and also a musical educator to boot. No wonder the city of New Orleans has celebrated her with a honorary degree.
Courage to Act: Rescue in Denmark
The Museum of Jewish Heritage: A Living Memorial to the Holocaust in downtown Manhattan has a current exhibition (October 2023-ongoing) entitled Courage to Act: Rescue in Denmark. The show is geared to young people and makes use of state of the art technology: talking holograms and creative storytelling that bring this important chapter in history home to viewers of all ages. We get to know enactments of children affected by the German occupation, their personal experiences and how they survived during that time.
In this day and age where anti-semitism is on the rise all over the world, I think this is an important show that illustrates how, despite enormous risk, neighbors mobilized to create one of the most effective—and exceptional—examples of mass resistance and escape in modern history. It is the curators' hope to help young people make connections to their own lives and reflect on the dangers of prejudice.
Click here to listen to some real accounts of survivors during that time.
Quote of the Week
Paintings of the Week
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 164: Sandra Mujinga, Caroline Myss: Sacred Contracts, Fast Car :Tracy Chapman/Luke Combs
Artist Sandra Majinga
Sandra Mujinga, Spectral Keepers
Detail, Spectral Keepers
Spectral Keepers, Installation
Multidisciplinary artist/musician Sandra Mujinga could be called a citizen of the world. She was born in the Democratic Republic of the Congo but grew up in Norway from the age of 2 (why am I not surprised—those Scandinavians!) and also moved for a few years to Kenya as a teenager. Her mom was a fashion designer and was intent on exposing her to all different kinds of culture.
Mujinga's art was a standout at a recent visit to the magnificent Guggenheim Museum (the building never disappoints) as part of a show entitled Going Dark: The Contemporary Figure at the Edge of Visibility.
Mujinga's installation piece consisted of tall, thin, towering figures draped in fabric, bathed in lime green light, making for a mysterious "afrofuturist" alien vibe while at the same time mirroring the suits of medieval bee keepers.
Mujinga's Louisianna channel interview reveals a very thoughtful and engaged artist—well worth the listen…
Calluses, 2018 (Photo: Jan Søndergaard)
Photo Courtesy Croy Nielsen
Caroline Myss Sacred Contracts
I have come across Caroline Myss's name before but couldn't remember in what context. I am so glad I found her again, this time on an interview with Oprah Winfrey from her program Super Soul Sundays. Myss's book, Sacred Contracts is not new, but her message is still relevant and maybe a game changer for some of us in search of our purpose in life…
According to Myss, so many of us have no idea why we are here on this earth and what our purpose might be. As a result, anxiety, depression and fatigue run rampant, symptoms of a general malaise among our population.
Myss has developed an insightful and ingenious process for deciphering your own Sacred Contract—or higher purpose—using a new theory of archetypes that builds on the works of Jung, Plato, and many other contemporary thinkers. All of this is explained in detail in this interview, and it is one of the best examples of a practical and useful self-help guide I have come across...
Fast Car: Tracy Chapman and Luke Combs
No need to introduce this more--you have probably heard about it already--Tracy Chapman and Luke Combs knocked it out of the park with their Fast Car duet on last week's Grammy Awards--one of the all time great songs of our time. What a wonderful sight to see their pleasure at performing together and the joy it brought their audience.
Combs is a star in the country music world: 2x CMA Entertainer of the Year, multi-platinum, award-winning artist from Asheville, NC.
Tracy Chapman often avoids the spotlight and has not emerged often in reccent years. That is why her Grammy appearance made even more of a sensation.
For the story behind the song, click here.
Painting of the Week
I often put quotes underneath my paintings, to serve as subliminal messages…This one is a Rumi quote: Put your thoughts to sleep, do not let them cast a shadow over the moon of your heart. Let go of thinking. .35” x 111” mixed media on canvas.
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 163: Two Dogs: Poundcake and Milkshake, Heather Mader Wild Story, Cat Stevens
Two Dogs:
Poundcake and Milkshake
Milkshake
Here is a sweet story about a beautiful rescue dog named Poundcake, who happens to also be deaf. Poundcake was finally adopted by a nice loving couple who gave her the proper attention she needed after living in a shelter for quite a while. The new owners even learned sign language and taught it to her so they were able to communicate with her that way. But there was something missing...And then along came Milkshake...
and lived happily ever after…
Heather Meder Wild Story
At the risk of being called crazy, I share with you here a story that defies logic yet is so intriguing that I thought I would share it with you in any case. Whether you believe something like this is possible or not, whether you take it as pure fiction or in the realm of possibility, it is a good story nonetheless as heard on the Jeff Mara youtube channel, a podcast that explores paranormal phenomena.
Meet Heather Meder, an artist/painter in her own right, who claims to have encountered and lived with a real life true extra-terrestrial alien. Sounds unbelievable. As she herself states, she is just a normal person who never thought anything like this could happen to her. If you stick to it, you might find this interview utterly fascinating as I did. Judge for yourself while watching the video...
Cat Stevens
Cat Stevens was such an important part of my teenage years and coming of age. His songs evoke so many memories and a friend just reminded me that I even went to see him in concert at the Westchester County Center when I was in middle school. She reminded me that we baked him some banana bread and left it on the stage for him (no recollection).
Born Steven Demetre Georgiou in London, England to a Greek Cypriot father and Swedish mom, and whether you call him Cat Stevens, Yusuf Islam, simply Yusuf or his original stage name Steve Adams, the man has had a complicated history and illustrious life as seen through this video. One thing remains consistent—-his ability to play amazing music and write compelling songs that have stood up throughout the years…
Here are a few of my favorites:
How Can I Tell you
If I Laugh
Father and Son
Morning has Broken
The Wind
RubyLove
Photo of the Week
This painting found a good home with some nice people in the new Nordhavn waterfront section of Copenhagen, formerly an industrial area, now converted into a whole new neighborhood with apartment buildings and shops and sustainable innovative Danish architeture.
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 162: Inge Schuster Art, Jenny Cockell's Past Life, Rumi Poem
Inge Schuster
Art
Came across these digitally manipulated compositions by artist/photographer Inge Schuster on instagram (@inge.schuster), full of luscious color and stark architectural structures, combining them in an innovative and beautiful way. The creative and innovative photo compositions, sometimes coined as "urban minimalism" immediately called out to me for their zen-like, simple, poetic quality. "With a keen eye for detail, a lot of time and care is put into editing the images to achieve a unique end result. She often combines elements from different photographs."
For more of her stunning and varied works, follow her on instagram: @inge.schuster
Jenny Cockell's Past Life
The story of Jenny Cockell/Mary Sutton is perhaps the most remarkable story I have read on the subject of reincarnation, shared with me by a good friend in Maine.
Cockell claims to have remembered many of her past lives--the story in this video from the Phil Donahue Show details one of those lives which preoccupied her deeply throughout her current life. In that past life which she had definitive memories of, she died at a young age, leaving her eight children to fend for themselves. She worried about them incessantly in her current life and set out to see if she could figure out what happened to them. She managed to succeed and twenty years later, ended up finding her (now adult) children who were still alive and who were able to corroborate her story.
Sounds too crazy to believe...as fantastic as it seems, you will have a hard time disproving it. It will all make (more) sense after watching this incredible video.
If you have further interest, you might want to take a look at her books Yesterday's Children and Across Time and Death by Jenny Cockell and read another one that started me on my journey: Many Lives, Many Masters, written by psychiatrist Dr. Barry Weiss of Mt. Sinai Hospital in Miami Beach, Florida, which opened the possibility of reincarnation for me. I have been down that rabbit hole, and many other related ones, ever since.
Jalaluddin Rumi Poem
THE GUEST HOUSE
by Jalaluddin Rumi
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.
Translated by Coleman Barks
Photo of the Week
FREE POSTERS! Going to visit this painting today at the home of Architect Kim Herforth Nielsen of 3xn architectural firm. in Copenhagen. Let me know if anyone wants a free poster and I will send you one.
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 161: Jamie Raskin/Cassidy Hutchinson, Birds of Paradise, Rudyard Kipling Poem
Jamie Raskin and Cassidy Hutchinson in Conversation
Two of my favorite people in politics these days—ones whom we owe it to if democracy does prevail… Congressman Jamie Raskin (representing the 8th district in Maryland) and former White House aide Cassidy Hutchinson. Raskin asks very compelling of questions of Hutchinson that give us a glimpse of what it was like for her to be on the inside of the Trump administration, realizing she was no longer comfortable with what was going on… Here is their conversation.
I've written about Cassidy Hutchinson before. I read her book Enough, highly recommended from this awesome young person who is wise way beyond her years. She was drawn to Washington DC since she was a little girl and I Wonder if she was in politics in a past life...
Birds of Paradise
Not much to say about these surreal creatures which have rendered me speechless (and that's saying a lot if you know me). Watch this video below that hopefully will provide some distraction from all the overwhelming man-made problems in the world. These birds of paradise are found in eastern Indonesia, Papua New Guinea, and eastern Australia. The family has 45 species in 17 genera. Be prepared to drop your jaw in utter awe of mother nature…
If
by Rudyard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream- -and not make dreams your master;
If you can think- -and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same:.
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build’em up with worn-out tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
And never breathe a word about your loss:
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on! ‘
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings- -nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much:
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And- -which is more- -you’ll be a Man, my son!
Photo of the Week
Ladder, Waldo Theatre, Waldoboro Maine
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 160: Artist Isamu Noguchi, Winter Songs, Brisket Recipe
Isamu Noguchi
One of the perks of needing new tires at Costco in Queens is that it happens to be right across the street from the Noguchi Museum, a place I’ve always wanted to visit and just never seemed to get around to it. But today was the day and boy am I glad I came! The museum is really beautiful, the art is totally amazing—almost felt like a brief trip to Europe smack in the middle of an industrial section of Queens…
Isamu Noguchi(1904-1988) was a sculpture and landscape architect—half Japanese and half American, growing up in both places. He had a complicated life and as a result, he never felt at home in either place and art played a role as his refuge.
Right away as you walk there are big signs saying not to touch. I thought that was a little strange and it felt off-putting but now I realize why—the textures are so exquisite that you can't resist putting your hands on them. I love the contrast between the smooth and the rough, the chiseled and the mottled, the shiny and the matte…the many varieties of stone—all feels like poetry to me.
Winter Songs
Courtesy Getty Images, photo by Lawrence Toscano
Courtesy Peter Ralston, Peter Ralston Gallery, Rockport Maine. To purchase, contact them at (207) 230-7225
Valley Winter Song by Fountains of Wayne
I Am A Rock by Simon and Garfunkel
Reindeer King by Tori Amos
Winter Song by Sara Bareilles, Ingrid Michaelson
Brisket Recipe by Joyce Nathan
Courtesy Joyce Nathan and the New York Times Cooking App, Bobbi Lin for The New York Times. Food Stylist: Maggie Ruggiero.
Nick’s Mashed Potatoes
I am pretty good at keeping in touch with people—in fact it is the pride of my life that I have many friends that go back to when I was five or six years old. And lots of high school friends, one of them being Nick Fox, who I met in tenth grade.
Aside from being on the editorial board of the New York Times, he is also an awesome cook and I had the pleasure of having dinner at his house the other night. He even gave me a couple choices about the menu ahead of time. At first he asked me how I felt about borscht, to which I replied "that sounds fine" (but secretly thinking maybe it didn't sound so fine) and he picked up on that right away and said it had to garner a better than just fine response. So then he mentioned brisket to which I responded "that sounds much better." Well, it was much better! In fact it was by far the best brisket I ever had and the only problem is that I overate because it was so good. His wife Cielo is a lucky person. She doesn't cook at all and to have Nick in the kitchen providing all the meals is a truly wonderful thing. Hopefully I will get invited again soon.
Here is Joyce Nathan's Brisket recipe that Nick adapted and his own mashed potato recipe to accompany it…
INGREDIENTS, Serves 12
1 first-cut brisket, 6 to 7 pounds, rinsed and patted thoroughly dry
1 medium onion (Nick adds a large instead), peeled, cut into and quarters
2-inch piece fresh ginger (Nick uses a 3 inch piece), peeled, cut into chunks
6 large cloves garlic (Nick used 9 cloves)
1 cup ketchup (Nick adds a half cup of gochujang with the ketchup
½ cup dry red wine
¼ cup cider vinegar
¼ cup soy sauce
¼ cup honey (he skips the honey)
¼ cup Dijon mustard
1 tablespoon coarsely ground pepper, or to taste
¼ teaspoon ground cloves
1½ cups Coca-Cola or ginger ale (he used coke)
½ cup olive oil
Step 1
Heat oven to 300 degrees
Let meat stand at room temperature for 30 minutes before cooking.
Step 2
Place all ingredients except soda, olive oil and brisket into a food processor and process until smooth. Pour the mixture into a large bowl and whisk in soda and olive oil.
Step 3
Place brisket, fat side up, into a heavy baking pan just large enough, and pour all the sauce over it. Cover tightly and bake for 3 hours. Turn brisket over, cover pan, and bake 2 to 3 hours more or until fork-tender. Cool, cover brisket and refrigerate overnight in cooking pan.
Step 4
The next day, transfer brisket to a cutting board, cut off fat and slice with a sharp knife against grain, to desired thickness. Set meat aside. Remove any congealed fat from sauce and bring to a boil on top of stove.
Step 5
Heat oven to 350 degrees. Taste sauce to see if it needs reducing. If so, boil it down for a few minutes or as needed. Return meat to sauce and warm in oven for 20 minutes. Serve warm.
MASHED POTATOES
Cut yukon gold potatoes into large chunks of the same size
Simmer until skin starts to come off. Better to just slightly overcook
Cool, peel, set aside
Roast unpeeled garlic cloves at 350 degree until soft. Cool and peel. Mash in a bowl
Heat butter and olive oil in a large pan over medium heat.
Heat the potatoes a couple minutes to try to get out more moisture.
Add garlic and buttermilk. (Use enough buttermilk that would seem to easily incorporate into the mashed potatoes and add more if needed.) Heat until buttermilk starts to simmer, then start mashing.
Add a good amount of black pepper and parsley before serving and check for salt.
Painting of the Week
Gert Mathiesen, Untitled, Linoleum Plate, collection of Power Station, New York, NY
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 159: The Book of Awakening, Starry Night Sky, Two Air Fryer Recipes
The Book of Awakening
I’m not one for New Year’s resolutions. Not sure why. I always feel like I don’t ever really carry them out anyway and I just feel that this is something we should be doing every day, not just on New Year’s Day.
But never say never—this year, while cleaning up my desk piled high with papers and books and everything that had accumulated over the holiday, I came across a book that my friend Dyan gave me last year called The Book of Awakening by Mark Nepo, and it is a daily dose of wisdom and meditation. The author set out to write his thoughts in hopes of introducing his readers to their own wisdom.
So I decided I’m going to try and read this every morning as Dyan does just as a reminder of how to center myself and what’s important in life.
Below is the January 3 entry, which, as you could see, I started a couple days late. Even though God is mentioned in the title of this entry, I do not see the book as at all "religious" in the typical sense of the word. I’m sharing it with you here today in case you are inspired to get your own copy and have a look at it every day like I am planning on doing.
Starry Night Sky
Courtesy Shutterstock
One of the pleasures for me of being up in Maine is going out in the middle of the night and looking up at the stars. Sometimes I am even too lazy to put on a coat, even in the dead of winter. It is refreshing and I don't have to go far...
From my little rented cottage, there is very little light pollution so it is a great place to view a good portion of the sky, being on the rocks with the ocean 180 degrees in front of me. Here is a simple lesson from an Indiana Science teacher on how to identify basic constellations.
The New York Times publishes a sky calendar every year and it can be synched with your regular phone calendar. And here is a what to look forward to in 2024 including meteor showers, moon schedules, eclipses etc..
Two Air Fryer Recipes
For those of us who have air fryers, here are two super easy to prepare recipes adapted from the New York Times Cooking App. Tasty and crispy without the amount of oil usually required for frying...Looks like a good meal to me! Complete it with a good salad of your choice...Courtesy of Eleanor Park and Melissa Clark.
CHICKEN THIGHS
Ingredients for 3 servings
3bone-in, skin-on chicken thighs (about 6 ounces each) or boneless, skinless chicken thighs
Salt
2 tablespoons sour cream
2 tablespoons Dijon mustard
2 tablespoons rice vinegar
Step 1
Heat air fryer to 375 degrees, if preheating is recommended for your air fryer.
Step 2
Pat chicken dry. Add salt to both sides of chicken thighs. In a Combine the sour cream, mustard and rice vinegar in a bowl and coat the chicken. (Chicken can be marinated up to 8 hours.) Refrigerate, then let return to room temperature before cooking.
Step 3
Transfer chicken in an even layer to the air-fryer basket. With bone-in, skin-on thighs, place them skin side down. Cook chicken until browned all over and skin is crisp, flipping halfway through (approx. 15 minutes). With boneless, skinless chicken thighs, put in fryer smooth side down. Cook until browned in spots and their juices run clear, flipping halfway through, about 15 minutes. When fully cooked, an instant-read thermometer inserted into a thick part of the thigh should read 165 degrees and the juices should run clear when pierced. Return to fryer if not done and check every few minutes. Let chicken thighs rest slightly and then serve.
FRENCH FRIES in the Air Fryer
Ingredients yields 2 servings
1 large russet potato cut into ¼-inch-thick sticks
1½ tbsp extra-virgin olive oil
1½ tsp kosher salt, more as needed
¼ cup mayonnaise
2 tbsp sour cream or plain Greek yogurt
1 tbsp Dijon mustard
¼ teaspoon smoked paprika
Step 1
Put potatoes in a large bowl and cover with cold water. Soak for at least 30 minutes (or up to overnight, stored in the refrigerator), then drain and pat very dry.
Step 2
Heat the air fryer to 350 degrees, if preheating is necessary. Line a rimmed baking sheet with paper towels.
Step 3
In a dry bowl, toss potatoes with 1 tbsp oil and 1½ tsp salt. Transfer to air fryer and fry at 350 degrees for 10 minutes, tossing halfway.
Step 4
Turn the air fryer heat up to 400 degrees. Drizzle potatoes with ½ tbsp oil. Cook for until golden and crisp, about 8 to 10 minutes, tossing or stirring halfway through. Transfer immediately to a serving platter and sprinkle with more salt.
Step 5
While the fries are cooking, make the sauce: In a small bowl, stir together mayonnaise, sour cream, mustard and paprika. Serve alongside the fries for dipping.
Painting of the Week
Charity of the Week:
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 158: Anders Goldfarb Photographer, Uniontown Band, Wayne Dyer on Letting Go
Anders Goldfarb Photographer
Anders Goldfarb Documentary: Buildings as Buildings by Peter Mattei—a look at Greenpoint and Williamsburg Brooklyn 1987 - 2007
Williamsburg/Greenpoint 1987 – 2007. Photographs bynAnders Goldfarb. Text by Bonnie Yochelson.
A very very long time ago I had a friend named Anders Goldfarb. I knew him way back when, in Ann Arbor, Michigan in the 1970s. He was from Brooklyn like my Dad, passionate about photography and always such a character--funny with a self-deprecating sense of humor, dark, garrulous, irreverent, compassionate. Son of Auschwitz survivors, his parents' past was never far from his psyche…
Somehow he popped into my head recently and I looked him up. I was so glad to see that he is still pursuing his passion and I love his photographs as much as I used to. He is old school all the way and is also now an adjunct professor of photography at Pace University in downtown New York.
In the days of digital everyone can do it photography, Anders was and remains a total purist, shooting exclusively in film and often with his old Rolleiflex--he is a product of the old school photographers, who he still greatly admires, including Robert Frank, André Kertesz, Berenice Abbott, Walker Evans, and Sergio Larrain, to name a few.
Anders' work is particularly relevant today--for many years he rode around on his bicycle, documenting Greenpoint and Williamsburg, Brooklyn before it disappeared to development, gentrification and its current renaissance. His book Passed Remains by art historian and curator Bonnie Yochelson is a beautiful and haunting testament to Brooklyn's history and is available today at Spoonbill Books on Bedford Avenue in Brooklyn and also on Amazon. For any of you Brooklynites out there, this book might be of special interest to you.
Anders can be reached at andersgoldfarb@gmail.com and follow him if you like on instagram.
Uniontown Band
My friend Eddie Holm and his two bandmates Chris Long and Fred Royal just released an album of original music entitled Uniontown, after recording it a few months ago in North Carolina. They have been playing together one way or another since the 1980s and have a deep longstanding friendship in and out of music. It shows.
Guitarist Chris wrote most of the songs and is the lead singer, Fred is a master on drums and provides some of the vocals along with writing a song or two and Eddie rocks it out loud and clear on bass…
The album Uniontown is now available on Spotify, Apple Music and Amazon Music.
and I invite you to listen and enjoy it. I personally think it is really great—a mix of good old rock and roll along with a slight mix of swamp and country. The songs are varied and multi-layered but they have a definitive sound which makes them stand out. There is not one bad track on the whole album--hard pressed to pick favorites but I do especially love Shotgun Never Aimed, Caledonia, and Higher Ground.
You can follow Uniontown Band on Facebook, Spotify, Apple Music, and Amazon Music or email them at theuniontownband@gmail.com.
Eddie Holm
Chris Long
Fred Royal
Wayne Dyer on Letting Go
Of all the myriad of self help gurus we are surrounded by these days, one of my most favorite is Wayne Dyer, who passed away a number of years ago but who is still my go to person when I am looking for a little wisdom and a reminder of how to stay centered…
Here is one of his brief and wise talks—this one on letting go. You can find a lot of his other enlightening videos on youtube if you google him.
Here is a song to go along with the theme: Turn Turn Turn, written by Pete Seeger, sung by Judy Collins and Pete Seeger. Reminds me of the quote "let go or be dragged." And just by coincidence, came across this Pete Muller tune just now entitled Letting Go, which is also apt.
Pete Muller, Letting Go
Painting of the Week
Charity of the Week:
Food Bank of NYC
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
Blog No. 157: Krista Tippett Interview, Blaschka's Glass Flowers, Carl Jung
Krista Tippett Interview on 10% Happier Podcast
Krista Tippett is known for her very successful interview show @onbeing but in this case, the tables are turned and she herself is being interviewed by Dan Harris on his podcast 10% Happier. I thought this was a perfect choice for this week's blog as the year winds down. Three Skills for Staying Calm, Sane and Open in a Chaotic World
.Glass Flowers by Leopold and Rudolph Blaschka
I had an open studio last week and it was great to meet some of my neighbors in the building who stopped by. One of the people I met was Dimitri, a scientist, and somehow we got on the subject of the Ware Collection of Blaschka Glass Models of Plants (aka the Glass Flowers) which he had just seen and greatly admired at the Harvard Natural History Museum in Cambridge, Massachusetts. I looked it up and found this to be a truly amazing collection with a very unique story.
According to those who have seen this exhibit in person, you cannot believe, even six inches away, that these plants are not real.
The collection of over 4,000 models, representing more than 830 plant species, is considered one of the University's greatest treasures and is the only collection of its kind in the world.
In the words of Leopold Blaschka explaining their extraordinary talent, "Many people think that we have some secret apparatus by which we can squeeze glass suddenly into these forms, but it is not so. We have the touch. My son Rudolf has more than I have because he is my son and the touch increases in every generation. The only way to become a glass modeler of skill, I have often said to people, is to get a good great-grandfather who loved glass; then he is to have a son with like tastes; he is to be your grandfather. He in turn will have a son who must, as your father, be passionately fond of glass. You, as his son, can then try your hand, and it is your own fault if you do not succeed. But, if you do not have such ancestors, it is not your fault."
Crash Course in Carl Jung
I recently became interested in Carl Jung and Jungian psychoanalysis in an attempt to explore different aspects of myself that puzzle me. Jung's wholistic approach and philosophy resonates with me, since according to him, so much of life takes place on the subconscious level--our daily existence is just the tip of the iceberg. I came across this "crash course" in Jungian philosophy on youtube--it is a simplified version I am sure but serves as a broad overview of his theories.
Painting of the Week
Gert Mathiesen, Red Figures, Fish mixed media on canvas, 45” x 88”
Charity of the Week:
National Dance Institute
About The Author
New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow, began writing the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her and her art, visit her website and check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.
